Toxic partners aren’t your responsibility, it’s better to end unhealthy relationships: Mohib Mirza

Renowned actor Mohib Mirza, who portrayed Hassan in Jafaa, has advised people in unhealthy marriages to prioritise their well-being and seek separation if the relationship continues to deteriorate despite attempts to mend it.

The actor appeared in an interview with the BBC Urdu to discuss his role in the ongoing drama series Jafaa.

He plays the role of a husband to Mawra Hocane, who portrays Dr Zara in the series.

Despite appearing to have a perfect marriage, Hassan exhibits red flags when he becomes excessively angry with Zara over minor disagreements. He has also unintentionally struck her in the heat of the moment.

In the drama, Hassan's sudden outburst of anger is triggered by the unresolved trauma of his parents' troubled relationship.

While discussing Hassan’s red flags, Mohib said, “Perhaps Pakistani men can better understand that such behaviour is not a sign of masculinity or heroism. It may be rooted in traumatic experiences from childhood.”

He stated that people like Hassan should seek therapy but many men hesitate to discuss mental health.

“Almost 99% of this hesitation is a matter of respect, whether it's due to societal conditioning or ego, but there seems to be a strange stigma surrounding mental health conversations that prevents many men from opening up," the Tark-e-Wafa actor added. 

When asked if he would advise someone to make efforts to enhance a relationship while tolerating mental and physical abuse from their partner, he replied, “No, do it to some extent but this is never anyone's responsibility.”

Explaining his point, Mohib clarified, “We are not promoting divorce. We are trying to convey that if a relationship has become toxic, it will only worsen.”

"It is scientifically proven that prolonged stress can lead to various health problems. Therefore, it's essential to avoid living with constant bitterness and negativity," he opined.