‘Where’s my sindoor?’ Wife of BSF tropper captured by Pakistan asks Modi govt

Following the fragile ceasefire between India and Pakistan—ushered in after India’s “Operation Sindoor” on May 7 and Pakistan’s retaliatory “Operation Baniyan al Marsoos” on May 10—the guns have quieted, but for some families, the silence is agonizing.

One such voice is that of Rajani Sao, the pregnant wife of BSF officer Pranam Sao, who was captured by Pakistani forces during heightened tensions along the border last month. Her heartbreaking plea to the Modi government has now drawn national attention: “Where is my sindoor? Will he ever return?”

Sindoor, a traditional red mark worn by Hindu married women, symbolizes the presence and safety of a husband. But for 34-year-old Rajani, who is seven months pregnant, it now represents uncertainty and anguish.

Pranam Sao, stationed with the 24th Battalion of the Border Security Force (BSF) in Ferozepur, Punjab, was reportedly trying to assist farmers stranded near the international border on April 23 when he inadvertently crossed into Pakistani territory. Soon after, he was detained by Pakistani forces. His capture was later confirmed when a photo emerged showing him blindfolded in custody.

According to Indian news outlet The Wire, the Sao family from Rishra in West Bengal has since received no official update on his condition or chances of repatriation. Rajani’s last conversation with her husband was on April 22. Hours later, she was plunged into silence and dread.

Speaking through tears at her modest home in Hooghly district, Rajani said, “I saw the photo. He was blindfolded. Since then, nothing. The officers told us they are trying… but now there is war. I don’t know what tomorrow will bring.”

When asked about India’s “Operation Sindoor,” her grief became uncontrollable. Covering her face with her shawl, she cried out, “Government! Give me back my sindoor!”

Pranam’s father, Bhola Sao, a retired security guard, echoed his daughter-in-law’s heartbreak. “My son served this country for 18 years. Now we are left alone, with no answers,” he said, recalling a visit to Ferozepur where army officials had initially promised to bring Pranam back safely.

As the political dust settles, the Sao family waits—with no closure, no communication, and fading hope. For Rajani, it’s not just about diplomacy or conflict—it’s about the promise of a husband returning to meet his child.